raynes wrote:It was announced that this meeting was of high importance and everyone should attends. Those are not my words, that is what was announced.
Maybe one of the reasons you and I aren't seeing eye to eye on this one, raynes, is becuase I take the invitation to have a different meaning than you do:
Mynias the Watcher, defender of the lands, and protector of all people, has called upon all guild leaders to attend a summit in Pyr this Sunday. It is of utmost importance that all who can attend do. Discussions will include cooperation between the races, as well as a warning system for kitin attacks. The meeting will take place at 6 o'clock EST, in Agora Hall in Western Pyr. All are welcome to attend, but guild leaders and representatives are urged to come. There will be a reception following the meeting, where eager Homins may look for a guild, and guilds may look for these Homins.
-On Behalf of Mynias the Watcher
This does not mean that everyone--hands-down everyone on Atys--should be able to attend, which seems to be your interpretation. It does say that all are invited, but nowhere does it make any statement about how practical that should be. Furthermore, the invitation seems to imply that not all guild leaders and citizens will be able to attend, for whatever reason.
So if you have a meeting where you say it's important for everyone to attend, then put it in a place where many can not attend there is a problem there.
Not at all. Saying people should attend is not the same as saying the people are guaranteed a chance to attend, which seems to be the way you think things should be.
This is a roleplay issue becuase you are introducing and important event that will effect the future of my characters life, one where it is important for him to be a part of. Yet it's being setup by default that he nor a representive of him is able to attend.
What I'm hearing, basically, is that you really want to be there, and are upset because you don't think you'll be able to make it. I think, though, that if you talked to people in-game and made an effort to find a large group that is planning on making the journey, you may be able to make it. I hope you try, and good luck if you do!