jjm,
Mischaracterizing the situation you find yourself in does not help to resolve it. From my point of view you made certain claims, Xeno asked for specific data, you got defensive about it, Xeno pressed for more data, and then you decided that if Xeno couldn't accept that you knew what you were doing that he must think you a moron. As far as I can tell, you brought this on yourself. Now you go around to different threads making direct or indirect references to the incedent hoping for sympathy.
If I am wrong in what I have just stated, tell me where and I will correct my statements appropriately.
And to the original poster, I agree in principle with what you are saying, but often it is better (I have found at least) to go directly to particular individuals and discuss issues with them rather than painting with a broad brush on an open forum. This is not a criticism, but only an observation on my part.
And jjm, you might find yourself better off as well to talk with Xeno privately, offline, rather than trying to garner support against him on the forums here. Just my opinion, take it or leave it.
Regards,
Miy's player