A Little Frustrated
Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 9:45 am
I've played a few MMOs in the past that disappointed me, but I keep trying new ones because I'm drawn to the idea of the multiplayer experience. In FFXI, I loved that the difficulty of the game forced players to work together even to grind. In Nexus War, a browser-based MMO I played for a while, I loved the focus on guild conflicts (Barhah!). I like the feeling of not just being around other people but of all of many people working together for the goals of the whole, not of themselves. I hated how WoW focused on solo grinding until you got to a high enough level to raid. I'm not playing an MMO so I can chat to people while I do single player activities. When I read about Ryzom, I was enthralled by the idea of massive invasions, guild conflicts, and faction warfare, because I thought finally I had found a fully developed MMO in which I could really be a part of a whole.
I recently reached the mainland for the first time, having spent the past three days on Silan grinding by myself (I mean, I was doing quests, yes, but it was still essentially grinding), and when I ask "What now?," all anyone tells me is "explore" or "trek" or "make your own fun." Are these ideas that I find so exciting even really here? Is my search for an MMO that is truly massively multiplayer, in content and not just in form, a futile one? I'd like to join a guild, but I'm not just gonna join a random one, and nothing I've seen in the list of guilds has been very helpful. And even once I do join one, given what I've seen so far, I wouldn't be at all surprised to find that it's essentially just like the guilds in FFXI and WoW, a place for people to chat and ask for help, rather than an organization with plans and goals, goals being the key component here, of its own.
Anyway, any help in this, whether it be telling me about a guild with goals where I would feel at home, or even just letting me know now that I'm not going to find any of this here, so I don't have to waste time on it, would be greatly appreciated.
I recently reached the mainland for the first time, having spent the past three days on Silan grinding by myself (I mean, I was doing quests, yes, but it was still essentially grinding), and when I ask "What now?," all anyone tells me is "explore" or "trek" or "make your own fun." Are these ideas that I find so exciting even really here? Is my search for an MMO that is truly massively multiplayer, in content and not just in form, a futile one? I'd like to join a guild, but I'm not just gonna join a random one, and nothing I've seen in the list of guilds has been very helpful. And even once I do join one, given what I've seen so far, I wouldn't be at all surprised to find that it's essentially just like the guilds in FFXI and WoW, a place for people to chat and ask for help, rather than an organization with plans and goals, goals being the key component here, of its own.
Anyway, any help in this, whether it be telling me about a guild with goals where I would feel at home, or even just letting me know now that I'm not going to find any of this here, so I don't have to waste time on it, would be greatly appreciated.