Ryzom rules state: You may not harass, threaten, embarrass nor discomfort any other players.
Loomas told me I took the repeated verbal attacks too personal, and now its cause I am a drama queen. Thats ok Loomas, I'm not mad at you. You can try to make it look like its me, but you know, I know and most of windy server people know DT very well by reputation, and they also know you, as leader do nothing about his actions to other players. That don't mean you arent a nice guy. You are a sweet and well tempered person. In your own way, you are trying to keep peace for the majority while occasionally having to sacrifice a member or two who get distressed when they are targeted with this abuse.
Melinoe has a great reputation because DT has tirelessly and mostly single-handedly developed and maintained a fantastic online database of Bosses and harvesting information. To his credit, he alone did what no other Ryzom guild has been able to duplicate. I used to occasionally go with DT on what he called science trips to find bosses and other various Atys info. I loved hanging out with DT and didnt understand why so many people were warning me about him. He was always a doll to me and fun to be with. DT also offered multiple times to be my heal Biotch so I could develop ele. He was generous with his time and ALWAYS nice.
I didnt understand until I was in guild what the problem was.
Once in guild, I was owned and my behaviour had to be 100% guildocentric (play with guild members only not Loomass rule as leader, but DTs unwritten policy)
.which I violated
. and that caused me to become target of some of the nastiest verbal abuse I have ever had. (and Ive been married twice, so that says something) 80% of my playing time on guild stuff was not enough it had to be 100%. I think there is only 1 of the 10ish active members who had any (very occasional) outside of guild activities. No one likes to be a pincushion and worse when it is unwarranted, unfair and during recreational time! All of Melinoe know this and they are really great people, but they choose to tolerate the abuse, which is weird to me. The Melinoe anthem of ignore DT just isnt right when it is degrading, embarrassing, distressing AND most importantly, a violation of Ryzom rules.
I dont mean to mislead and sound like the problem was only in guild, as there were also unprovoked attacks on non-guild people in region chat, but I don't want to go into the stories here. I don't need to prove my point with tales and screenshots of what happened. (though I do have many) Most people know anyhow from events of the past, from other ex-Melinoe members or read his random attacks on players in region chat. My stories will sound the same as theirs. But
..The problem is here, this isnt a guild CoC violation alone, it is a Ryzom game violation. Short of dragging agro, DT has behaved no better than Infinity, and thats why this subject isnt hijacked, its relevant.
And Loomas, the irony I was pointing out was
.2 times in the last 2 weeks I was in Melinoe, you said yourself that you almost demoted DT from HO and almost kicked him from guild
**Almost** being the key word. As the GMs may have **Almost** considered punishing Infinity. Are you without sin to be casting stones?
Melinoe says ignore DT.
Maybe Ryzom says ignore Infinity?
savvy wrote:Why is nothing being done about blatantly breaking the rules?
YES! WHY?
omsop wrote:so as a leader, stop trying to please 1 person in the Guild, try pleasing them all & as Leader, stand upto him, cause from what i have seen & heard since i left, not 1 thing has changed.
Excellent advice! We ask for action from the GM's and should live by example.
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Basic will be mad at me for posting this but Im sorry, (more corny sayings) Those who do not learn from the past are doomed to repeat it.
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And yeah Posmo, I had a long why I am leaving letter too. I never sent to you to read but here it is.
http://www.therever.com/melinoe.htm I checked for curiosity and yep, I had been banned from the site within hours of posting it also.
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Aelvana that almost made sense, do you mean he made mistake = human?
Did Loomas admit to error?
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And Morgy! Stop calling us human, you SO know better
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Temper