Hi marlevvll
I have been playing for just over a year now, and I too at the start, once the newness had worn off, found my self feeling a little as you do.
I have to second everything that has been said be for my post.
But just need to say, don't be so quick to dismiss Ryzom. Like I said, I came to a point when I was wondering, what is the aim of the game? what is there to do other than leveling?
You make your own life here, with the help of the people you meet. They become your family, your guild becomes your new home.
One of the most enjoyable few weeks I spent here, was when I came to this 'what is there here for me' stages.
I stopped leveling everything, got on my mount, and with my partner went on a world tour...it was fantastic! I still have not seen all of atys, this was more an A to B tour, stopping off here and there to have a look round, but I know there was so much more to see, corners I didn't turn to explore because my path was taking me a different way. Of course this cost me a good few mil in dappers, as I had to replace my mekki a few times lol, not to mention the death points! But it was so much fun, and the main thing, no grind.
There are story telling events, and some may say pft, but I can assure you, if you went along to one of them, they are very well done, and quite moving.
My old guild had a 'fight night' just guildies messing around and having a laugh.
Sit in Zora in the summer when the trees are in blossom and watch the sun set...its an awsome sight!
And whats that place called with the maze, my memory is bad *blushes...but I spent a full evening finding my way through that, and flagging every little turn, so if ever a 'younger' player needed help to get through it I could assist them
All these things require no grinding...and are so much fun
The main thing I would say about Ryzom is, you need to find the 'right' guild or group of peeps to hang out with (not saying your in the wrong guild) but it makes the world of difference to be with like minded people
I hope you find your niche in atys and stay with us. Good luck what ever you decide