If you want yet another alternative to look into
Children of Atys is our family like guild, from what you described I would think you to fit in pretty well

we do roleplay a bit, but it's not a big must and we do chat alot not necesaraly in character

the drawback is that we're as of yet not a very big guild for it's good and bad sides, so there might not be anyone online at all times. I'm sure you'll find a fitting home amongst one of us, welcome to Atys and the lakelands
*hugs from lil me*
Elder of Atys recently returned
Shezomb, Shezi, Rheayen, Rheayeni, Lhugmor