Here are my suggestions for you (more of a if you are interested in this these may be more for you, not you should do this

)
First, What race should you be?
This depends on a couple things.
1) Do the looks make you want to choose one? This is up to you.
2) If you read the lores the different races believe in either kami or karavan; so does the alliance of the race matter to you? Remember however that if you choose a kami aligned race such as zorai that does not mean you can't believe in the karavan, That is up to you!
3) Next consider the different kinds of lands you will be playing on. There are four different lands: desert (fyros), jungle (zorai), forest (matis), and last but not least waterlands (tryker). The different lands can be harder than others to start out in. The waterlands most will say are the hardest ones to play in so maybe you don't want to start a tryker till you have played before? That again is up to you

You may want to start four characters out right away, one in each land. Don't worry about dieing or anything when you load into each one, just take a run around the four beginning lands and see what one you find the most visually appeasing that you would like to start playing in. (when you have been playing for longer you can go on treks to go to the other lands, so if you pick fyros (desert) that does not mean you wont see the jungle ever ;P)
I think those are the main things you should think of when starting
What skills will you be interested in, so where should you put your first three points you can designate. If you want to do it all (like me) then put 1 in magic, 1 in craft, and 1 in dig. The reason for this is because you can still fight with your hands but you cannot do any of the rest if you don't designate it (you can do it later during game play but it is more expensive

). Maybe you want to just do fighting though. In this case I would put 1 or 2 in to melee and 1 or 2 into magic. When I started playign I planned on fighting most and just digging a tad on the side and craft when I can. Well now I fight little and dig and craft only

So things can change as you try them out, but remember not every skill is for everyone in this game, you are free to do many things and enjoy many areas of the game.
When do you leave the beginning island?
Well, you can leave sooner or later

very broad answer I know but it depends how comfortable you feel with it. My suggestion is to stay on the beginning island till you feel comfortable with the game play and probably about 20 in melee and magic (doesn't matter what your dig and craft is as those go faster on the next land

). You want to be around 20 in melee and magic though because it does make leveling easier there. Though I say 20s in those two skills stay longer if you feel you need it. Also realize that there are not as many people in the beginning lands as in the next lands. So once you teleport over you will see more people.
Finally, Who am I? My name is Caitiff and I am a zorai. If you ever would like help with a question and I am on I would be more than glad to help you out. To shoot me a tell type in your chat channel /tell Caitiff <text> If I am not online it will tell you

Take care, enjoy your time in the lands, and the best of luck to you with whomever you choose