Ryzom

hey,

mboeing thats right..
and grimjim thats right too.. but i never said anything about RL..
but its okay, only was my opinion about it, cause of some expierience with an similarly case...
To say it in short words... what mboeing said... the fast leaving, dont hurt her and other ppl so much, but when she would do it, like the girl in my case.. not easy to come over and forget it.
Dont want to speak more about it, only wanted to say these.

grimjim wrote:That goes for all of us in The Samsara too.

We're really worried as Meeny isn't the sort of person to vanish without saying anything and its been three, four weeks now?

Where are you!?

I like to say one possible thing about Meena's dissapearence she's probably gone for a short time and may come back while the lag issue is fixed which started about 2- 3 weeks ago i know from experience people may play more stable games and check back on our lovely world of Atys from time to time to see if lag is fixed this happened in Anarchy Online and also Star Wars Galaxies.... Meena we all miss you *ribbit*

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Blacky, i think you're wrong in this case.

Meena please say something. At least on our guild site. Miss you so much and worried terribly about you. Its just not like you to leave us without a word.

Ah yes, i am wrong... now everybody know, that i am wrong? fineee..
Thanks a lot...
And maybe before you say something you listen, read and then you dont say anything without reason.
I accept every opinion, but only, when ppl standing realy behind there words, and can give a reason for that.
Btw: I said thats maybe only my opinion, but before you answer you have to read what i write, and i am standing behind my words, cos i think they are right... its not only a storry... love in internet is a special thing, maybe i am ill .. think what you want.. ty

*hugs Blacky88*

blacky88 wrote:Btw: I said thats maybe only my opinion, but before you answer you have to read what i write, and i am standing behind my words, cos i think they are right... its not only a storry... love in internet is a special thing, maybe i am ill .. think what you want.. ty

Emotions are very powerful things, try to keep in mind that the game world is very different to the real world. The anonymity allows people to say things and do things with very little risk of real world consicences. Things that they wouldn't be able to do in normal life, suddenly become all to possible.

I am quite a serious roleplayer, I really enjoy putting character into Neun.

However, its very important to remember you are dealing with other people and you must always protect both yourself and those who you interact with.

An example is Frydeswinde and Me .... two strangers that have become close, brother and sister close, we trust each other enough that we can even roleplay 'play fights and teasing', however we both know that 'This is a game'. So keep what you feel ingame, in the game ..... If it happens to go out of game, then remember that the real world rules apply.

In game - you can't be hurt physically, you can swith off the world like a light.
Out of game - you can be hurt and you can find the people very different.

Mental emotions are down to you, how you feel is down to you. Someone can try to make you angry, but its you that lets yourself get angry.

I hope this helps, and doesn't sound to much like a lecture.

Blacky I read what you said. But this isn't a case of some love gone wrong. This is a case of a guildmate and friend disappearing suddenly. Someone does not go from being highlly active to quiting suddenly.

IC: I worry that my guildmate has gone missing and wish for her safe return.

OOC: I'm worried because my friend has suddenly disappeared. I'm a chik, this isn't some love scorned thing going on here

Heya Neun,

nice words.. thank you.. i know .. all with the woman and me was to much.. all of her was played, she dont trusted me and wasnt honestly.. maybe cause i was to fast.. i never will have the same situation and its better, if i dont will have so much contact with other ppl...
It was to good, but on the other side to bad...

Everytimes when anything was wrong with her in GAME!! i was also down in rl .. very down.. i am not a good roleplayer in this cases, cause i am to personally... and there some more problems... but nobody can help me with this, only i can help me my self...

What i said was only an example...

Otherwise.. Thank you .. and back to Topic ..

Blackeagle

iwas asking me the same last night, where is the cute meena who is always friendly and with the always nice choosen clothes

i just hope she is not lost in another game, or there is a familiy problem...she is to sweet to leave us or to have problems.

Crying for a person who did not bothered to say good bye is at best a sign of naivity. And IF something bad happened to her, all the tears from the world could not change that. And for the others who are "deeply touched" and "worried" and stuff... that's just noise, belive me.

(Just my 2 cents)